I am located in the Northwest Corner of Connecticut – the Litchfield Hills as they are called. It is a completely private, second floor space with multiple themed rooms geared for different experiences but for these purposes I will likely mainly be in the main area. (also known as the dungeon but don’t let that scare you)

The room is generally dimly lit but with some lovely flickering candles, soft ethereal music, and a heated massage table.

I also have a tremendous amount of gear and am hesitant to show it all here so I will just give you a peek. 😉 Some of these things may appeal to your curiosity and some that may not. Anything you see listed here is available but never mandatory so never fear! Your limits and desires will ALWAYS be my first concern. Let’s talk about some of the things you may or may not want to explore so you can make an educated choice.

Bondage – One of the parts of BDSM (Bondage& Discipline. Dominance & Submission, Sado Masochism) that I am most practiced at, and totally gets my juices flowing is bondage. Many people truly enjoy feeling the sensation of being anywhere from at least a little tied up, to completely helpless, vulnerable and wide open to being explored (especially as trust builds over time) for a variety of reasons. Bondage works for so many people for so many different reasons – from very lite to extreme and everything between and for others – not at all. I am skilled with and LOVE rope, including suspension bondage but can also do leather cuffs or steel manacles, handcuffs, sleep sacks, mummification, duct tape or saran wrap or even vacuum bed bondage.  I can and will meet you wherever you are at with this and will completely respect your comfort zone. If you want to start slow and have the ability to opt out at a moment’s notice, then that is what we will do. MY ONLY AGENDA is making you feel comfortable, safe and ultimately – relaxed.

Percussion Play – ok so a lot of people that have no experience with BDSM may not really understand why some of us like to be spanked, flogged, whipped caned, thumped or otherwise hit and tortured with hands or various implements. And I really do get that.  When I first came into the kink lifestyle. I had childhood baggage because my dad was quick to pull his belt out of this loops with a haunting hiss and I’d already be running when the first strike landed. I didn’t get it at first either – trust me. But, over the years I learned to move passed my past and breathe in ways that helped me not just process moderate to strong sensation, but to turn it into a catalyst for catharsis and a way to reduce the stress that daily life dumped on me.  I’ll talk more about breath work soon, but I found the combination of breath and tolerable levels of pain that builds slowly over time can help me and many others reach amazing levels of ecstatic, floaty, catharsis resulting in remarkably relaxed states in the end.  Do we go from zero experience to F1 levels on a first date? Definitely not!  But if you put your trust in me and communicate how you are doing moment to moment – I promise you will have a good time. 😊

More BDSM Stuff –   

Nipples – some like soft touch and gentle caresses – others want moderate tweaks still others enjoy sharp deep pinches and sensation.  You let me know how much sensation works for you.

CBT (Cock and ball tease / torture) & Pussy torture – ooh this is a broad category! Everything from clothespins and clamps, to scratchy slappy toys, to suction toys, or electrical fun with zaps and tingles like the violet wand. Vibration, pinching, slapping, heat, tugging, spiky pokey toys, bondage so many sensations that help build and move erotic energy takes us on a lovely rollercoaster ride between pleasure and pain and back and often we never want that ride to end.